Navigating Conflict with Grace

Scripture:
“If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” — Romans 12:18 (ESV)

Reflective Question:
How can you handle conflict in a way that reflects Christ’s love?

Devotional:
Conflict is inevitable. In a fallen world, misunderstandings, disagreements, and hurt feelings are a part of life. However, this doesn’t mean we should fall into the trap of letting those conflicts corrode our godly principles. This is because the way we respond to conflict determines whether it leads to division or growth. When we decide to respond to anger, hatred, frustration and impatience, we are letting the desires of the flesh take control of us.

Our natural instinct is to normally fight or flee—to attack our offenders in anger or to even withdraw ourselves from our loved ones in resentment. But the gospel of Christ calls us to a different way of life. It calls us to a life of humility, patience, and grace. It reminds us that we, too, are sinners in need of forgiveness, and that God’s love is greater than our need to be right during moments of frustration. In the same manner that God has been consistently patient with us, we must also exhibit His divine grace to others.

Conflict is an opportunity to reflect Christ. Will we be ruled by pride, or will we choose the way of peace? Will you let your emotions come in the way of you using a moment of conflict to share with others the unconditional love of God for all people? Don’t let the enemy use your response as a weapon, and let the Holy Spirit guide you to use it as a tool for peace-making.

Prayer:
“Loving Father, in moments of conflict, help me to respond with grace instead of pride. Teach me to listen well, to speak with love, and to seek peace, even when it’s difficult. Empower me through Your Holy Spirit to let my relationships be a reflection of Your mercy. In Jesus’ name.”

Amen.